How would u feel if u took sum1 on a date to a chinese restaurant and they ate just plain boiled rice?

I am a really really fussy eater. I am used to it but others can sometimes react badly. I had a date with a guy in a pub, had a few drinks-it was fine. Now he has invited me to a chinese restaurant. when he asked he sounded like he has really checked this place out and really wants to take me there. the problem is the only thing on a chinese menu i can eat is plain boiled rice and (maybe a dessert). I don't want to tell him this early on what a fussy eater i am as some people find it really off putting, yet if he finds out when he knows me better he probably won't mind.

But how do you think he will feel if i order just plain boiled rice.How would u feel if u took sum1 on a date to a chinese restaurant and they ate just plain boiled rice?
If I was you I would spring your fussy eating on him when he has got to know you a bit better. Show him your other wonderful qualities first. Tell him that you would like to go for a drink instead, make up a good excuse like you have eaten already or have food poisoning or you would simply rather just go for a drink.

I think it will be too much for him at this early stage. However tell him you though the thought of the chinese restaurant was good and maybe another time
Is there something wrong with honesty?



Just tell him you don't like chinese. And most chinese restaurants have alternate foods like salads etc. for people who don't like chinese foodHow would u feel if u took sum1 on a date to a chinese restaurant and they ate just plain boiled rice?
I'd think you were a cheap date. Seriously, tell the guy up front, BEFORE he takes you there. It you wait till you get there, he might think you're weird.
telling him will take the pressure off you when the date actually happens. maybe you both can even find ways to laugh about it.
I WOULD BE LIKE THE REASON WE CAME TO A CHINESE PLACE IS TO EAT CHINESE.......?........?................鈥?/div>

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I think you're overstating this. He won't care what you eat.
who cares what you eat
so you dont like chinese food.... so what. if you date cant get past that... you should find a new date.
Oh come on! Surely you can be just a little adventurous for once in your life. He will think you're weird if all you eat is boiled rice, unless he's desperate, and if he is, maybe you don't want to be with him.
scared there is over 400 differnt dishes on a chinese menu n ur eatin plain boiled rice. sorry but if it was me id run away. sorry.
He should be ok with that. It shouldn't matter what you eat. It should matter if he likes you or not. If he doesnt' like it then he's definatley not good enough for you. He may ask you about it but he may either be curious or want to start a conversation
Very confused.Be honest with him from the start.Not all people like Chinese meals.Its not a crime.I am sure it is your company he wants.I am sure he will not be bothered about your eating habits.Good luck and happy eating.
Tell him up front that you are not fussed on chinese. Dont let him take u there and then eat rice!!! Suggest a place that you like instead or steer clear of a meal and suggest something else. Flicks, bowling, karting, drinks, anything that doesnt involve food if you are not comfortable with telling him about your eating habits.



I think he would feel like you were taking the piss out of him personally. Just being honest.
Who cares, if he likes you for who you are he accept you the way you are. Have a nice time!
its not him

its you

you need help

i ll eat anything as long as its food
You would really only eat plain boiled rice?? Wow..you're weird!